Maury:
You’re sure that he is the father of your child?
Quest:
Yes, Maury. Look at his eyes and
my baby’s eyes. They have the same eyes
Maury.
Maury:
Why do you think he’s denying being the father?
Quest:
Cause of that *itch he’s with and his crack head momma. They are going around saying that my baby ain’t
his and that I cheated on him.
Maury: So, you are absolutely positive
that there’s no one else who could be the father?
Quest:
No, Maury. I’m ten million
percent sure that he’s the father.
Unless it’s Immaculate Conception, there’s no one else.
Alleged Baby Daddy: Man Maury, I don’t know why she’s saying this
is my baby. He doesn’t even look like
me. Hell, I didn’t even sleep with her
back then. We broke up cause she was
cheating. Just put it like this Maury, “you
can’t make no hoe into a house wife.”
Maury:
Okay then. Let’s get to the results. In the question of paternity….Brian…YOU
ARE NOT the father…..
Quest:
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO…. (As she runs off stage like a track star.)
Proven NOT to be the father: See, I told ya’ll….she’s a hoe….. (And cut to
commercial.)
The majority
of us, at one point in time, have witnessed this scene over and over
again. Some of us have shaken our heads
in utter disgust. And some of us actually
felt sorry for the mom. SORRY that she
made a complete ass of herself, on national television, in front of millions of
people. SORRY for what she put the
alleged baby daddy through (along with his family). And we feel SORRY for the child caught in the
middle of this madness.
I write this
blog because, me, as a woman cannot understand how any woman (and I use that
term loosely here) can do that to her child.
A child she claims she will never hurt intentionally. Because taking your kid(s) on national T.V.
only to have their hopes of having a dad crushed in ten minutes or less---to me—is
intentionally hurting them. What kind of message is she sending to her kid(s)? What kind of example is she setting? What will she say? …… “Oh, baby, since momma
was sleeping around, I don’t know who your daddy is?” Really????
And what
about the ones who had multiple men tested?
Is there ever a point in their minds where they stop denying the
truth? If they don’t know, then just say
so. Denying the truth only makes these
women look foolish, look nasty, and makes them look like complete idiots.
I speak so
candidly about this because this happened recently to one of my family
members. From the start, he kept telling
us that he did not sleep with his ex around the time she conceived. And instead of petitioning the court for a
DNA test, his ex-tried to slap child support on him. Mind you, someone else signed the birth certificate,
and the child was in that man’s last name.
She only started this mess when the child’s “father” found out he wasn’t
the father. I think the child was around
four or five back then when all of this came up. Fast forward to now, I think he’s around ten
and she started this mess again. But you
know what’s so wrong about all of it? She was only concerned with “getting
paid.” Yes, those were her exact words…..Well,
sorry boo boo. My family member WAS NOT
THE FATHER—ZERO CHANCE—NADA---NO---WRONG GUY.
To make matters worse, he was the fourth guy she had tested. Let’s count---One. Two. Three. FOUR.
My heart
goes out to her child because of his momma’s stupidity and lack of judgment. What will he think of women now? And I bet she doesn’t even realize the damage
she has done to her child. And that’s a
shame within itself.
I understand
that I might have offended some with this entry. Honestly, I can care less. Maybe, whoever needs to be offended. Now it’s time to grow the hell up and try to
do the right thing for the child’s sake……And in the famous words of Tamar
Braxton, I leave you with this….”Get your life cause ain’t nobody got time for
that!!!!”
Just Saying,
Niesey
